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Aisling Walsh's avatar

Sorry to hear about the name change, but delighted you're still here!

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Ann Lyons's avatar

Great name ‘it does exactly what it says on the tin!’

Bit of a strange request but some work or insight into (when your abuser dies) how to navigate your own feelings whilst supporting others in their grief.

I only want to recover myself from the trauma and would not nor do I ever intended to destroy the memories of the person they loved.

It’s hard to sit through the outpourings of grief for my abuser and as a survivor of their abuse I find myself asking myself “was it really that bad?”

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